When a celebrity dies one has to put up with a certain amount of media hype, but after Benazir Bhutto's death what struck me most was the singular lack of remorse in Pakistan There was plenty of grief, even some regret, but no remorse. Remorse is different from regret. When a child is accidentally hit by a car, an onlooker may feel regret, but the driver feels remorse even though it was not his fault. The regretful person says 'too bad, it happened'; a remorseful person is scarred, sometimes for life. Nehru expressed remorse when Gandhi died. Yudhishthira's remorse helped reconcile Hastinapur's torn society although he wasn't responsible for the war in the Mahabharata. General Musharraf, I think, lost a fine opportunity to achieve reconciliation in Pakistan.